Post by sweett on Jul 27, 2013 21:55:51 GMT -5
I think a guy i was attracted to has a problem and will not recognize it as such. We went out on what i thought would be a date but we sat at the bar. He didn't order any food just several (maybe 10-15) vodka/tonics and about 4 shots of patron, the tab was really high. In between his drinks he kept getting up to go outside and smoke. After this he then asked me to take him to a gas station for mor cigarettes but he came out with a 4 loko and he drunk this on top of what he had just had at the bar. I googled the 4 loko because i did not know what it was and it has the same affect as a small hit of cocaine and causes blackouts! After he drunk this i got really scared he went to sleep, but an hour later woke up and was sleepwalking and he urinated on my carpet. He went back to sleep and was snoring terribly and his heart was racing!!! This whole thing was scary for me. This sounds like more than a social drinker and i think he may be an alcoholic and possibly abuses other substànces that i don't know of. Are these the signs of substance abuse? Now he won't speak to me because he thinks im lying about him peeing on my carpet!!! Most people would say good riddance but for some reason i actually felt hurt and rejected because he won't speak to me or acknowledge what he did and i feel like an idiot when i should not.
Before this guy i had been in a 2 year relationship that ended with me catching my ex in bed with someone else and he left me for her so maybe this ruined my self image causing me to operate differently and not let go of things like this alcoholic that aren't good for me. Any advice or anyone just tell me that these 2 men are just clearly wrong for me!!!
Before this guy i had been in a 2 year relationship that ended with me catching my ex in bed with someone else and he left me for her so maybe this ruined my self image causing me to operate differently and not let go of things like this alcoholic that aren't good for me. Any advice or anyone just tell me that these 2 men are just clearly wrong for me!!!