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Post by kathy113 on Feb 28, 2008 9:23:38 GMT -5
I have been in a serious relationship for 4 months (we have been living together that long). Everything seems great - we do things together constantly, he holds my hand every time we are sitting next to each other (at home & out), he tells me he loves me many times each day and is always kissing and hugging. However, he seems to be losing interest in sex. At first it was almost every night. Then it went to a couple of times a week which is OK. But now it is more than a week. In fact he even said he was too tied one night and turned me down. I am 10 years older than him and fear that he is losing an attraction to me. What should I do. I don't want to scare him away.
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Post by Dorothyl on Feb 28, 2008 11:03:53 GMT -5
Hello & welcome Kathy
Relationships can vary from hot to cold for either partner.
Sometimes it is a good idea not to jump to any personal conclusions and just sit back and allow the other partner some space. Everyone is different at certain stages of a relationship. He may be taking stalk of things and relaxing a bit now that you have had some time together.
Some partners feel that if they do not perform sexually, that the relationship will fall apart.
Maybe you should have a quiet conversation with him and let him know that you are wondering how things are going in his mind.
When I say a quiet conversation, I mean stating your thoughts and then listening to his. In order to be able to know where his thoughts are, it is best to ask.
My advice is to not assume anything without proof and concrete facts.
Good luck! Huggzz~D~
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