Post by graciebutterfly on May 22, 2008 18:13:26 GMT -5
Ok, I am looking for sites and books that you guys have read or heard that are really good to teach us women the stuff we dont know because guys dont tell us. Weather that is sexual or just things guys love for us to do or say. I'm not talking about the common sense stuff but the stuff women usually dont know.
Hope that makes sense. This week my mind is all about learning things that make his head turn my way instead of the other way.... ya know???
Anyone got any ideas?
I have been working on wearing more low cut shirts and making sure I dont have pj pants on all the time. Right or wrong it is amazing how different he treats me when I am not in a pony tail and sweats. Oh and a great padded bra and a ribbed shirt - they will melt in a pool of mush. So I know the basic stuff like that and to not nag and be jealous etc, etc... but the things that that turn their heads towards you. Since we are always so insecure, jealous, and possessive of them I am trying to learn the right amount of opposite of that to try. I am an all or nothing person so I want to do it gradually.
A couple of days ago I made sure that I looked hot but not like I tried to (makes sense) and then when he got home I was busy taking care of the house and dogs, etc... Not needy and being active. It definitely got his attention. He said - you are sexy tonight... Know what I said.... "Yeah, I know" and winked at him. He about fell out of his chair. Course I dont believe that but fake it till ya make it !!!!
So any ideas to make him follow me like a puppy? Not just visual stuff - dressing more provocative and such (thats easy) but other stuff that you have found out that really works. Things they love to be asked or hear? I know men are all about action and not words so girls give us some ideas.
We cant make them want only us. We cant make them be faithful. We have to do things that make US irresistible! We can only control us not them.
So get out of those pj pants and t-shirt and into something that flatters you the best. They are visual!
Hope that makes sense. This week my mind is all about learning things that make his head turn my way instead of the other way.... ya know???
Anyone got any ideas?
I have been working on wearing more low cut shirts and making sure I dont have pj pants on all the time. Right or wrong it is amazing how different he treats me when I am not in a pony tail and sweats. Oh and a great padded bra and a ribbed shirt - they will melt in a pool of mush. So I know the basic stuff like that and to not nag and be jealous etc, etc... but the things that that turn their heads towards you. Since we are always so insecure, jealous, and possessive of them I am trying to learn the right amount of opposite of that to try. I am an all or nothing person so I want to do it gradually.
A couple of days ago I made sure that I looked hot but not like I tried to (makes sense) and then when he got home I was busy taking care of the house and dogs, etc... Not needy and being active. It definitely got his attention. He said - you are sexy tonight... Know what I said.... "Yeah, I know" and winked at him. He about fell out of his chair. Course I dont believe that but fake it till ya make it !!!!
So any ideas to make him follow me like a puppy? Not just visual stuff - dressing more provocative and such (thats easy) but other stuff that you have found out that really works. Things they love to be asked or hear? I know men are all about action and not words so girls give us some ideas.
We cant make them want only us. We cant make them be faithful. We have to do things that make US irresistible! We can only control us not them.
So get out of those pj pants and t-shirt and into something that flatters you the best. They are visual!