Post by mel1 on Dec 6, 2007 3:58:12 GMT -5
Hi ladies,
Below is an article I wrote about a relationship course I stumbled on in my personal development travels and was really impressed with. You’ll have to forgive it for the sickly (IMHO) title, ‘How To Be Irresistible To Men’. As a writer I’m well aware of how often editors change an author’s perfectly workable and intelligent title into something…um…nauseating…so please don’t judge this by its title alone.
It’s not a magic formula – no book, course or counseling session ever is. But I’ve read a lot of books and been through a lot of counseling over the years and this is one of the few things I’ve experienced that actually comes close to helping women lose their fear and head towards a greater freedom in their relationships. Enjoy!
There's a disturbing secret that women share. You can find it on any internet forum that deals with issues like women's self esteem or in any room where best girl friends gather and talk. The sad reality is that the majority of women in relationships, from the dating stage to the Golden Wedding anniversary, are constantly scared. They're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing, of losing their man and of staying stuck in their misery. There are hundreds, probably thousands of relationship books and guides available in bookstores and on the internet but many offer a superficial answer to a deeply profound problem. That’s why they don't work. There is however, an alternative - one that empowers women and removes the fear.
In a research-based course developed by intelligent women for intelligent women, Amy Waterman and Sarah Paul outline strategies that women can use to claim back their self-esteem, assert their own personalities and needs, and make informed decisions about the man they want to be with, whether in a dating situation or long-term committed relationship. The authors of the ‘How To Be Irresistible to Men’ course point out that women are usually so busy trying to please men, or a particular man, right from flirting point to marriage and beyond, that they miss out on discovering and loving themselves. This, they claim, is a fundamental trap women fall into and that by learning how to relax into her full potential, a woman can attract a worthy man and keep his eyes on her for the rest of her life.
Sounds easy? It’s not as easy as you might think. Women have been conditioned to behave in ways that please others, downplaying their strengths and pretending to be someone they’re not in order to win their man. But the key to attracting the right partner and keeping the relationship strong is being confident in who you really are. There’s no doubt about it – men love confident women. But there’s no point in playacting. Your confidence has to be authentic; you have to do this for yourself and that means accepting who you are, liking your own personality and knowing you’re a real gift to the world, men included.
The ‘How to Be Irresistible To Men’ course is different to the norm. It won’t tell you how to implement a few strategies, promising you eternal happiness. It will tell you how to appraise a man in a healthy fashion, turning the tables on the usual scenario where a man does the choosing and the woman waits for his judgment to fall. It’s important to determine if he’s good enough for you. It will also tell you how to feel beautiful no matter what kind of day you’re having, how to project your inner beauty and how to take charge of your life and relationships. The course also covers how to recover from a breakup, how to approach online dating, how to get in touch with your own sensuality and how to maximize your chances of getting back together with your ex, if you so choose. In fact, ‘How To Be Irresistible to Men’ is the ultimate pro-choice course for women, teaching you to honor yourself and go after what’s good for you.
Purchase of the course not only provides you with hours of video tutorials, a detailed ebook and a workbook full of exercises to practice, it also provides internet access to a number of invaluable resources and a free consultation worth over $60. ‘How To Be Irresistible to Men’ is only one of a number of books written by Amy Waterman and she recommends further reading for those in committed relationships who want to keep their men falling at their feet after 30, 40 or more years together! Isn’t that what we all secretly desire?
www.beirresistibletomen.com
or visit my new blog: www.womenandrelationships.blogspot.com
Ciao and hugs,
Mel
Below is an article I wrote about a relationship course I stumbled on in my personal development travels and was really impressed with. You’ll have to forgive it for the sickly (IMHO) title, ‘How To Be Irresistible To Men’. As a writer I’m well aware of how often editors change an author’s perfectly workable and intelligent title into something…um…nauseating…so please don’t judge this by its title alone.
It’s not a magic formula – no book, course or counseling session ever is. But I’ve read a lot of books and been through a lot of counseling over the years and this is one of the few things I’ve experienced that actually comes close to helping women lose their fear and head towards a greater freedom in their relationships. Enjoy!
There's a disturbing secret that women share. You can find it on any internet forum that deals with issues like women's self esteem or in any room where best girl friends gather and talk. The sad reality is that the majority of women in relationships, from the dating stage to the Golden Wedding anniversary, are constantly scared. They're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing, of losing their man and of staying stuck in their misery. There are hundreds, probably thousands of relationship books and guides available in bookstores and on the internet but many offer a superficial answer to a deeply profound problem. That’s why they don't work. There is however, an alternative - one that empowers women and removes the fear.
In a research-based course developed by intelligent women for intelligent women, Amy Waterman and Sarah Paul outline strategies that women can use to claim back their self-esteem, assert their own personalities and needs, and make informed decisions about the man they want to be with, whether in a dating situation or long-term committed relationship. The authors of the ‘How To Be Irresistible to Men’ course point out that women are usually so busy trying to please men, or a particular man, right from flirting point to marriage and beyond, that they miss out on discovering and loving themselves. This, they claim, is a fundamental trap women fall into and that by learning how to relax into her full potential, a woman can attract a worthy man and keep his eyes on her for the rest of her life.
Sounds easy? It’s not as easy as you might think. Women have been conditioned to behave in ways that please others, downplaying their strengths and pretending to be someone they’re not in order to win their man. But the key to attracting the right partner and keeping the relationship strong is being confident in who you really are. There’s no doubt about it – men love confident women. But there’s no point in playacting. Your confidence has to be authentic; you have to do this for yourself and that means accepting who you are, liking your own personality and knowing you’re a real gift to the world, men included.
The ‘How to Be Irresistible To Men’ course is different to the norm. It won’t tell you how to implement a few strategies, promising you eternal happiness. It will tell you how to appraise a man in a healthy fashion, turning the tables on the usual scenario where a man does the choosing and the woman waits for his judgment to fall. It’s important to determine if he’s good enough for you. It will also tell you how to feel beautiful no matter what kind of day you’re having, how to project your inner beauty and how to take charge of your life and relationships. The course also covers how to recover from a breakup, how to approach online dating, how to get in touch with your own sensuality and how to maximize your chances of getting back together with your ex, if you so choose. In fact, ‘How To Be Irresistible to Men’ is the ultimate pro-choice course for women, teaching you to honor yourself and go after what’s good for you.
Purchase of the course not only provides you with hours of video tutorials, a detailed ebook and a workbook full of exercises to practice, it also provides internet access to a number of invaluable resources and a free consultation worth over $60. ‘How To Be Irresistible to Men’ is only one of a number of books written by Amy Waterman and she recommends further reading for those in committed relationships who want to keep their men falling at their feet after 30, 40 or more years together! Isn’t that what we all secretly desire?
www.beirresistibletomen.com
or visit my new blog: www.womenandrelationships.blogspot.com
Ciao and hugs,
Mel