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Post by girlhollie on May 15, 2009 19:48:33 GMT -5
Help Please
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Post by peggy on May 16, 2009 19:51:24 GMT -5
Hi, Hang in there. There is nothing wrong with feeling the need for help. Everyone needs help .We all get discouraged, and look at the flaws and problems that shatter confidence. At some time in their lives, everyone wonders ( if everything that they did) was best course in life to take. Life has its ups and downs.
Don't be discouraged with what is happening. Remember people care about you. You have value and worth in life. You are here.. you have been born, you are alive.. you are a survivor in life. Don't get disheartened .. start to believe in yourself again. Believe me.. thinks can change with you, and how you think and how you feel. It takes time. Hang in there. I know you have seen times when you have smiled. But you must never forget about your value and worth. Never forget that people care about you. There are people who want you to be happy, there are people who will always pray for you. We here, at this website care.. that is why we are here. We care and we share. The sun will come out.. it is out there... the clouds will move away. Daylight will come..try to be patience . Life can be overwhelming at times. . Some things just happen. And no one is happy and pleased with life all the time. I like to think of life as a learning experience. Yesterday has past, and today is the day that we are living though.. and this minute is the time that my wishes for you happiness are . Dorothy's website is educating and guiding us. She know the "route " to positive self esteem. She believes in us and that every one is entitled to positive self esteem and to be happy. So you have begun your journey .. thanks for being here. We care. Positive thinking .. and positive actions, brings happiness along with it. It takes time.. learning to love yourself .. Sometimes it take more then just thinking about it. Many here keep a journal.. writing down and looking at what really is happening in life. It doesn't have to be written here... but it does seem that minds are so full of thoughts.. that somehow to put it to paper is a way to help all the thought from running together. And it is funny how the bad thought pop up faster then the happy feeling and thoughts. It takes time to learn how to cancel out all the negatives in life and turn it around to positive . And we are human.. so something will always go wrong.. but instead of looking at it as something wrong.. ya have to find out how to look at it as something that is OK.. And in time.. lots of time.. you can learn how to cancel out all the negative thoughts and feelings with positive thoughts and feelings.
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Post by angel79 on Apr 17, 2011 12:17:31 GMT -5
I have an ex on n off for 4 years I recently broke it off n he started dating some othr grl he broke it off wth r at least what he is telling me n I chose to not answer when he calls because I think he doesn't really want to break it off wth her says that she won't stop texting r calling him. So I haven't answered his calls r texts n he sends me a message stating hope ur doing ok, u didn't answer yesterday when I called miss u? What do I do?
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Post by noeleena on Apr 18, 2011 3:29:05 GMT -5
Hi,Angel,
As you know your self better than us & your friend what do you really need .
why carry on with some one that is as youv said youv told him no more, yet you cant keep away . if you are going to stop seeing him then change your phone number if you make a break then do it, tho i think you wont him back & what will change, carry on the same. & get no where. Once you start sending messges youll just carry on , make the break & end it , you have to be strong & not even think about him. whats your heart saying .
...noeleena...
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